Great servanthood does not mean that we serve great people who serve serving. It means serving svn the least of who deserve it, serving even when the person deserves the opposite of serving. I used to be rough with people who made me angry and then I realized that I was not being humble. That I was not loving or serving. It made me even more angry to think that God wanted me to be kind to these people. But then I realized that I could do it for God, not for the person, but for God. He deserved my service, other than that no one else does. So now I try to do good for others, even if they are offensive.