To stay scornful and refuse to forgive and let go is ignorant. It blocks the good that is available to you. God wants us to be tender hearted and forgiving. He knows we flourish when we are nice to each other. Ephesians 4:32 Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. 32Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.